who have you lost
when you hear that a friend lost someone close to you, the first thing that runs through your mind, is the ones you have lost.. Knowing what they are going through sympathy comes into play. No one wants to see a friend hurting, or going through a difficult time, but we all do. We have to remember that everyone deals with loss differently. None of us go through it the same.. Granted there are those that you gravitate towards that deal with things in a like manner, I have touched on this before.. but still EACH of us deals with Death in their own way.. ME, I cry at first hearing about it, then I just ignore it, act as if they were never gone.. I just lose touch with them.. that is easier for me then actually saying they are GONE, dead, never to return.. But see they do return to me, in dreams, and conversations.. When comments the living have never uttered before nor likely to again. It's those moments that we know their still here with me.. Even from afar and the unknown to a place ...